Advice is something that we all can use from time to time, especially when weโre in our teenage years. With that said, itโs not always easy to get through to younger generations โ but weโve still got to try. After all, those of us who are โof a certain ageโ had to learn it the hard way.
On Reddit, a user named u/Correct_Physics asked:
What advice would you give to someone who just turned 18 years old?
Here are 18 pieces of advice from elders that youโre going to wish you had when you were 18 (but probably would have ignored anyway). Those of us old enough to know realize just how important even the little things are.
You canโt put a price on good advice!
1. Exercise is important


As a young person, exercising regularly can be something you donโt even think about but as you get older this becomes incredibly important. This isnโt just for physical health, itโs also for your mental well-being. Reddit user u/restoper suggests:
โExercise at least enough to reduce the daily stress in your life.โ
2. Donโt pay attention to peer pressure


As an 18-year-old, some people can be impressionable and easily influenced by โtoxicโ people. According to Reddit user u/geronika, the younger you learn to get these people out of your life, the better off youโll be.
โDump peer pressure and toxic people out of your life. You control your life, donโt let others do it for you.โ
3. Relationship-building


Building good and healthy relationships is something that you want to learn when youโre young, and Reddit user u/hahahahthunk has good advice on how:
โLearn to listen. Talk with your partner about handling conflict. If you can agree that you are always on the same side, you are halfway there. Then itโs just a matter of figuring out how to handle things together. If you each want the other to be happy, itโs surprisingly easy. Youโll have times that absolutely suck because life is like that, but if you know you always have each othersโ backs, those times are much easier.โ
4. Do not overlook your teeth
โTake good care of your teeth,โ said Reddit user u/NennerNineNine. Dental issues can be something that young people donโt often pay attention to, after all, who wants to go to the dentist?
Anyone who has had to have a root canal can tell you why you should.
5. Walk away and come back to problems before you react


Being hot-headed is something that many 18-year-olds struggle with, but Reddit user u/BlooregardQKazoo has a good tip on not saying things youโll regret later:
โI cannot count how many times Iโve written an angry work email, walked away, and when I came back I decided to tone down the language or even completely change my approach. A clear head would have made me regret sending these emails so I cleared my head first.โ
6. Make yourself proud
Happiness comes from all sorts of different things, and one of those things can be doing things that make you proud. Reddit user u/hahahahthunk says:
โTo be happy, do the things that make you proud.โ
7. Consider trade school


If youโre looking to get into a career that involves a trade, skip the expensive colleges and try out a trade school. Reddit user u/restoper says:
โIf you want to be a plumber, craftsmen, carpet installer, mechanic etc. Donโt go to an expensive college. Go to a trade school, or maybe a year at a community college that specialized in programs that you wantedโ
8. Hold off on the โdumb stuffโ
Reddit user u/restoper was on a roll with the advice, also adding:
โThe older I get before I start doing real dumb stuff (drugs, for example), the less likely I will do dumb stuff that effects me long term.โ
9. Watch what you post
Remember, things you post on the internet are forever and can come up later in life to bite you on the behind. Reddit user u/restoper says:
โDonโt post things that are easily identifiable to you online that are controversial. (use fake name / account if you canโt help stop yourself from making these types of posts.โ
10. Take care of your feet, knees, and back
Cheers to a (hopefully) pain-free wedding day! Enjoy this meme you other 20s folks with back pain.
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The older you get, the more things start going wrong with your body. To avoid certain pains when you start aging, make sure you take care of โyour feet, and your knees, and your back.โ
11. Think ahead
As an 18-year-old, thinking ahead for what you want in your life can be the last thing you feel like doing. Donโt make this mistake, Reddit user u/AlegalHuman suggests:
โStart to think about what sort of person you want to be in your 30s, and identify any gaps you have to fill over the next decade or so to get there.โ
12. Use your young age to build up the muscles in your body


When youโre 18-years-old, it may seem like you have all the time in the world to sculpt the muscles in your body but according to Reddit user u/temp4adhd thereโs no better time than when youโre young.
โYouโll never be able to build lean body mass as quickly and efficiently as right now, so pick up some heavy weights if you havenโt already. Your bones and aging body will thank you down the road.โ
13. Use protection
At 18-years-old, using condoms sometimes goes out the window but itโs very important according to Reddit user u/dogecoinfiend:
โUse condoms! STDโs can follow you the rest of your life, and unplanned pregnancies can turn your life completely upside down.โ
14. Start investing young
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Putting away money can be something that slips your mind when youโre young, probably because it feels like you have all the time in the world to do so. Reddit user u/wopdnt suggests:
โLive on less than you earn and invest the difference. Time is your best resource when you are investingโฆeven if it is only $20 or $30 a month. It will add up in 40 years.โ
15. Donโt waste time on bad relationships
Iโm with it.
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When you get older, you start to learn that your time is actually the most valuable thing that you have. Thatโs why Reddit user u/CouncilTreeHouse suggests:
โDonโt waste time on relationships that go nowhere. I ignored so many red flags that I wasted a big portion of my life on men who were not right for me.โ
16. Start a 401k
As an 18-year-old, youโre not exactly paying attention to your eventual retirement but itโs important. Youโd be surprised how fast a simple 401k can build up money, just ask Reddit user u/Chipotlemama who said:
โAs soon as you get a job with a 401K, start adding to it. Even if itโs only 10 bucks a check. Youโll be shocked at how it will add up in a few years. Then donโt touch it until you retire.โ
17. People are more important than things


Itโs easy to get excited by the things you want when youโre young, but you always have to remember that โpeople matter more than things and gadgets.โ โ r/mrhymer
18. Live within your means
We love user u/toxic_pantaloons reminder that being frugal now can lead to wealth later on. As young people, we tend to want to have all of our experiences upfront and spend our money left and right.
โLive beneath your means! Donโt worry about the latest gadgets. Constant debt will eat you up alive in interest. Buy one item at a time, pay it off, then buy another. Used clothing and cars will save you lots, if you buy good quality ones that were taken care of.โ
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