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Dating a woman who speaks her mind will change your life
It's actually pretty important if you're looking for a long-term relationship.
Laura Shallcross
04.13.21

Men: what are you looking for in a woman?

Hopefully, unless your mindset is stuck in the 1800s, you value a woman who’s honest, open, and not afraid to speak her mind.

Don’t be intimidated by this sort of woman.

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If a woman is submissive, it’s probably a sign that she’s hiding hurt, dealing with self-confidence issues, or not ready to love someone else because she doesn’t yet love herself.

A woman who speaks her mind, on the other hand, knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to say it – now that’s sexy.

Read on for just a few reasons why you should consider dating a woman who tells it like it is.

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1. She’s up for honesty

There’s nothing worse than dating someone who can’t be honest in herself or her opinions. A woman who lives a filter-free life, however, will value honesty above everything else. She’ll tell the truth, always, even when it’s at her expense.

2. She won’t sugar-coat things

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On a similar note, being honest means that a confident woman will be realistic in her responses to your questions.

She won’t let you down by sugar-coating things just because she thinks you want to hear them.

3. She’s confident

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A confident woman isn’t afraid to stand up for her own views, even when she knows that others around her disagree. But that doesn’t mean she’s the argumentative type. In fact, women with a “say it how it is” attitude tend to be the most open-minded.

4. You can’t offend her easily

If she gives it, she’s going to take it, so you can rest assured that a woman who speaks her mind won’t take your own opinions and comments personally. If she doesn’t agree with you, she will of course tell you – but she’ll always have a valid reason for her response.

5. You can count on her for advice

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Because a confident woman doesn’t filter words, conceal the truth or sugar-coat reality, you can guarantee that she’s the best person you could turn to when you need advice.

She’ll think rationally, using her head, not her heart, which will ultimately help you to make the most sensible decisions in times when your own heart might be getting in the way of common sense.

6. She’s an open book

When you meet up for your first date with a woman who speaks her mind, she won’t try and pretend she’s someone she’s not.

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There’s nothing more annoying than when a woman (or a man, for that matter) tries to put on a front for the first few dates, only for you to discover by date four or five, when their real personality starts to show through, that you’re not a good match after all.

A woman who says it as it is won’t try to be anyone other than herself, knowing that it’s not the end of the world if the two of you don’t click.

7. She’s challenging the stereotype of being “ladylike”

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I don’t know what sort of straight-backed creep invented the archaic “ladylike” stereotype, but it’s time it was left in the past. Thankfully, a woman who tells it how it is isn’t afraid to show that being ladylike doesn’t mean being eternally polite, wearing perfume that smells like strawberries and never cussing.

Being ladylike means being confident and unapologetically yourself, and strong women know exactly how to do this.

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