Men: what are you looking for in a woman?
Hopefully, unless your mindset is stuck in the 1800s, you value a woman whoโs honest, open, and not afraid to speak her mind.
Donโt be intimidated by this sort of woman.
If a woman is submissive, itโs probably a sign that sheโs hiding hurt, dealing with self-confidence issues, or not ready to love someone else because she doesnโt yet love herself.
A woman who speaks her mind, on the other hand, knows what she wants and isnโt afraid to say it โ now thatโs sexy.
Read on for just a few reasons why you should consider dating a woman who tells it like it is.
1. Sheโs up for honesty
Thereโs nothing worse than dating someone who canโt be honest in herself or her opinions. A woman who lives a filter-free life, however, will value honesty above everything else. Sheโll tell the truth, always, even when itโs at her expense.
2. She wonโt sugar-coat things
On a similar note, being honest means that a confident woman will be realistic in her responses to your questions.
She wonโt let you down by sugar-coating things just because she thinks you want to hear them.
3. Sheโs confident
A confident woman isnโt afraid to stand up for her own views, even when she knows that others around her disagree. But that doesnโt mean sheโs the argumentative type. In fact, women with a โsay it how it isโ attitude tend to be the most open-minded.
4. You canโt offend her easily
If she gives it, sheโs going to take it, so you can rest assured that a woman who speaks her mind wonโt take your own opinions and comments personally. If she doesnโt agree with you, she will of course tell you โ but sheโll always have a valid reason for her response.
5. You can count on her for advice
Because a confident woman doesnโt filter words, conceal the truth or sugar-coat reality, you can guarantee that sheโs the best person you could turn to when you need advice.
Sheโll think rationally, using her head, not her heart, which will ultimately help you to make the most sensible decisions in times when your own heart might be getting in the way of common sense.
6. Sheโs an open book
When you meet up for your first date with a woman who speaks her mind, she wonโt try and pretend sheโs someone sheโs not.
Thereโs nothing more annoying than when a woman (or a man, for that matter) tries to put on a front for the first few dates, only for you to discover by date four or five, when their real personality starts to show through, that youโre not a good match after all.
A woman who says it as it is wonโt try to be anyone other than herself, knowing that itโs not the end of the world if the two of you donโt click.
7. Sheโs challenging the stereotype of being โladylikeโ
I donโt know what sort of straight-backed creep invented the archaic โladylikeโ stereotype, but itโs time it was left in the past. Thankfully, a woman who tells it how it is isnโt afraid to show that being ladylike doesnโt mean being eternally polite, wearing perfume that smells like strawberries and never cussing.
Being ladylike means being confident and unapologetically yourself, and strong women know exactly how to do this.
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