Across cultures and across the globe, there are a number of different ways to celebrate newlyweds. From toasts in the United States to tea ceremonies in Vietnam, each tradition pays homage to something from that culture. For Benjamin and Aaliyah Armstrong, their groomsmen and guests surprised them with a traditional haka.
The haka, characterized by its loud shouts, chest thumps, exaggerated facial features, and movements, is used by New Zealand’s indigenous people, the Maori, as a war cry to intimidate the enemy. Additionally, the haka has also been used as a way to celebrate peace. Today, the haka finds its place in both Maori ceremonies and as a way to mark special occasions, such as birthdays or weddings.
According to today.com, the video was captured by Westone Productions, a company owned by Aaliyah’s cousin, and made as a wedding gift. Once the couple posted the video to share with their family and friends, it took off.
In the video, which has been viewed over 1.3 million times on YouTube and over 42 million times on Facebook, one might think it is an attempt to scare Benjamin. As shared with BBC news, this particular haka was actually a show of respect from Benjamin’s best man and family members.
“They are quite strong, the men in their family,” Aaliyah said to the idea of intimidation.
Although the bride and groom begin by only watching, it is only a matter of time before the couple, and another bridesmaid, joined in.
“I wasn’t planning on jumping in until one bridesmaid did,” Aaliyah told BBC News. “I felt the need to show love and respect back. I was really blown away.”
Traditionally, the haka is performed by men, with women watching from the sidelines, ensuring that the movements are in unison. But, Ms. Armstrong said that an exception is made for weddings.
After the chilling display of love and respect by the guests, the video ends with Benjamin thanking a guest and his brother with a “hongi”. The hongi is a traditional Maori greeting in which two people press their noses against each other.
More than just a viral video, Benjamin sees it as a way for him to share his Maori roots and share his culture. In an interview with today.com, he said,
“People from around the world, including the United States, who didn’t know about the haka have decided to learn more about the New Zealand culture, as well as the haka itself and what it means. It’s just been choice.”
This gift has truly been one that keeps giving. It has been a way to showcase a portion of Maori culture on a global scale and given Aaliyah and Benjamin international recognition. We can’t forget what it is in its purest form: a heartfelt reminder of love and support from their community.
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