Everyone has been wrong at least once in their lives. But not everyone will admit to this. Sometimes our egos are so big that we refuse to see the error of our ways.
But one man is being applauded for coming clean on his bigoted beliefs on social media.
In a series of Twitter posts, Thomas McFall admits his annoyance at having to deal with a โforeign guy that barely speaks English.โ He mocked his fellow classmate for his inability to speak fluent English and how the foreign student would always encroach on his space.
โHey guys, I know I usually just post shitty jokes on my Twitter but bear with me because I wanted to share something. So in one of my Management classes I sit in the same seat in the front every day. Every single day I sit there. Now, I also sit next to some foreign guy that barely speaks English,โ he tweeted.
โThe most advanced thing Iโve heard this guy say in English is โWow, my muffin is really good.โ This guy also has a habit of stacking every item he owns in the exact space I sit. His bag, his food, his books, and his phone are ALWAYS right on my desk space.โ
Apparently, this guy has a pet peeve about friendly people, high fives, and having to share space.
โNow, every single time I walk into class this guy says โAh, Tom. You here. Okay.โ And starts frantically clearing my desk of his belongings. He then makes it a habit to say โReady for class, yeah?โ And gives me a high five. Every day this guy gives me a high five,โ Thomas complains.
And heโs really annoyed about the fact that this guy doesnโt speak perfect English.
โI was ALWAYS annoyed with this guy. Iโm thinking โDude, you know I sit in this seat every day. Why are you always stacking your shit here?โ And the last thing I want to do is give a guy who barely speaks my language high fives at 8 in the morning. Just get your shit off my desk,โ he continues to whine.
But something finally warmed up Thomasโ cold heart one morning.
โBut today I came to class and was running a few minutes late. Iโm standing outside because I had to send a quick text. I could see my usual space through the door out of the corner of my eye. Of course, my desk was filled with his belongings. The usual,โ he explained.
โAs Iโm standing there on my phone another guy who was also late walks into the class before me and tried to take my seat since itโs closest to the door. The guy sitting next to me stops this dude from sitting down and says โIโm sorry. My good friend Thomas sits here.'โ
He finally realized why the foreign student always had his stuff on Thomasโ seat.
โIt was then that I realized this guy wasnโt putting stuff on my seat to annoy me. He was saving me the seat every morning. And this whole time he saw me as a friend but I was too busy thinking about myself to take him into consideration,โ Thomas explained.
โCheesy as it sounds, I was touched. I ended up going into class and of course, he cleared the seat and said โAh, Tom. You here. Okay.โ And I did get a high five. At the end of class I ended up asking him if he wanted to get a bite to eat with me. We did. And we talked for a while. I got through the broken English.โ
Thomas says that he shouldnโt have been so busy thinking about himself to take the foreign student into consideration,
But letโs face itโฆ it seems as if he had resentment or preconceived notions about the man because of lack of English skills.
He later found out that the student was a standup guy.
โThe guy moved here from the Middle East to pursue a college education in America. He plans to go back after he gets his degree. Heโs got two kids and a wife. He works full time and sends his all his left over money back home to his wife,โ Thomas wrote.
โI asked him how he liked America as well. He said he misses his family but itโs exciting to be here. He also said โNot every American is nice to me like you are, Tom.โ
I bought lunch, of course. Dude deserves it. He gave me a high five for buying lunch. Gotta keep up tradition.โ
Either way, we can applaud Thomas for his ability to change.
โMoral of the story? Donโt do what I do and constantly only think about yourself. It took me nearly the entire semester to get my head out of my ass and realize this guy was just trying to be my friend. Better late than never I suppose,โ he wrote.
Thomas admits he isnโt perfect and neither are we, but we always have the ability to do better, learn new things, and get rid of outdated and hurtful modes of thinking weโve learned or inherited.
