Besides your family and friends, one of the most important people in your life can be your hairdresser. They have the power to make you look amazing or not so great with just a few snips of their scissors. Once you find someone you really like, you’ll probably stick with them for a long time.
But, sometimes attempting to do everything correctly at the salon can have negative consequences. Here are a few things to avoid when getting your hair cut or colored.
Showing up too early
Being late is obviously not ideal, but arriving super early is also not a good idea. You might think showing up before your appointment time will let you sneak in and get extra treatment, but that’s unlikely. Arriving too early can make your stylist feel rushed and overwhelmed, even if you don’t mind waiting.
Do this instead: You can call the salon on the day of your appointment to check if your stylist is available earlier, or simply arrive no more than 10 minutes before your scheduled time.
Not being specific enough
When you sit in the stylist’s chair, one of the first things they’ll ask is, “What do you want to do with your hair today?” This is your opportunity to be very specific about the cut or color you desire. Clear communication is key because a lack of it between the client and stylist can often result in a disappointing haircut. Don’t worry about being pushy or demanding—sharing your vision helps the hairdresser understand your needs and makes their job easier.
Do this instead: To prevent misunderstandings and mistakes, bring photos of hairstyles you like to your appointment and discuss them with your hairdresser. This allows them to understand your preferences and offer suggestions tailored to your face shape and hair texture.
Dusting off yourself or chair
When you’re getting a haircut, hair is likely to fall on the protective cape, and it may even land on your neck or shoes. Instead of trying to dust it off, it’s better to sit still, as moving around too much interrupts the hairdresser’s work and makes their job more difficult. Staying still allows the person cutting your hair to continue without interruptions.
Do this instead: If the hair on the cape isn’t bothering you, it’s best to leave it as it is. However, if it’s causing discomfort or itchiness, you can politely ask your stylist if they can brush it off or if you can do it yourself. By addressing the issue before you move, it allows the stylist to pause their work momentarily.
Using terms of endearment for your stylist
Using terms of endearment like “sweetie,” “hun,” or “babe” may seem friendly, but it’s not appropriate in a salon setting. These terms can be easily misunderstood and may make your stylist feel like they aren’t being taken seriously or their services aren’t valued. Remember to treat your stylist as the professional they are and use their name instead.
Do this instead: It’s best to use your stylist’s given name instead of shortening it, especially if their name can be easily abbreviated. For example, if their name is Elizabeth, it’s a good idea to ask before assuming it’s okay to call them Beth. Respecting their name preferences shows consideration and professionalism.
Grabbing what you need
If you need a spritz of hairspray or a brush while you’re leaving the salon or waiting for your hairdresser to get ready, it’s important to let them provide it for you. Avoid going into their belongings to grab items without asking. As hairstylist It’s a matter of respect and boundaries. Just like you wouldn’t want someone rummaging through your purse, the same courtesy applies to their belongings.
Do this instead: Respect your stylist’s boundaries and property by asking for any needed items or assistance. Not only does this show consideration, but it also ensures your safety and avoids any potential accidents with sharp salon tools.
Anticipating when you think you need to move
During a haircut, your stylist may ask you to make small adjustments like tilting your chin down or looking to the side for a more precise cut. However, it’s important not to anticipate these movements on your own. Communicate with your stylist if you need to adjust your positioning to avoid any accidents with the sharp tools, hot styling equipment, or chemicals present in the salon.
Do this instead: A better approach than pre-warning your stylist about moving is to wait for them to instruct you to change your position. They will let you know when it’s necessary to adjust your head during the haircut. Depending on the hairstyle you’re going for, such as layered cuts for a youthful look or a blunt bob, the stylist will guide you on where to look.
Nonstop chatting
You don’t have to feel obligated to engage in constant conversation during your salon appointment. They can understand and respect the atmosphere you desire for your service. Whether you want to chat or prefer a quieter experience, they won’t be offended. Remember, it’s not your responsibility to entertain the person styling your hair.
Do this instead: If you’re not in the mood to chat during your salon appointment, it’s perfectly fine. Begin the appointment by being friendly, and then kindly explain that you’ve had a busy week and would appreciate some relaxation and quiet time in the chair.
Showing up with dirty hair
It might seem logical to go to the salon with unwashed hair because they’ll wash it anyway. Some people even believe that second- or third-day hair is better for certain services. However, that’s not true. It’s a myth that dirty hair takes color better. It’s actually better to show up with clean hair. Moreover, it’s beneficial for the stylist to see how you usually style your hair. This way, they can better understand your preferences when adding highlights or giving you a haircut.
Do this instead: To ensure a smooth experience, it’s a good idea to call the salon before getting your hair colored and ask for their instructions. Some stylists may prefer your hair to be clean and free of any products.
Getting dressed up
When visiting a salon, it’s not necessary to dress up in fancy clothes. In fact, wearing dressier outfits can cause inconvenience when you sit in the hairdresser’s chair. It’s important to be mindful of your attire, as turtlenecks, collars, and hoods can be bulky and make it more difficult to prevent color, hair, and water from getting on your clothes while at the shampoo bowl. Opt for comfortable and practical clothing instead.
Do this instead: Make sure to choose a top that can stay in place comfortably under the protective cape provided by the salon. T-shirts and shirts without collars are usually suitable options. Additionally, it’s a good idea to avoid wearing open-toed shoes, as loose hair may get stuck between your toes.
Apologizing for your hair
There’s no need to apologize for the appearance of your hair when you arrive at the salon. Whether it’s been a while since your last haircut or you’re unsure about growing out gray hair, there’s no reason to feel sorry about the condition of your strands. Instead of apologizing, you can take this as a chance to seek advice. For example, if you’re concerned about grays, ask your stylist for recommendations on root touch-up kits or hairstyling techniques.
Do this instead: Be open and honest about your hair concerns instead of apologizing. Your hairdresser is a professional who can provide helpful advice. Don’t waste time apologizing when you could be receiving valuable guidance.
Avoid your phone
Using your phone at the salon is generally acceptable as long as it doesn’t disrupt the process or hinder your hairstylist’s work. However, avoid making lengthy personal calls that could disturb others who are seeking a relaxing experience. Respect the salon environment and be mindful of the atmosphere.
Do this instead: Don’t use your phone when you first sit down for your salon appointment. This is when you discuss your hairstyle with your stylist. After that, you can use your phone as long as it doesn’t require moving your head too much.
Not saying anything if you dont’ like the end result
If you’re not happy with the final result after the cut and blow-dry, it can be difficult to express your dissatisfaction. However, it’s important not to stay quiet. You should never hesitate to communicate your unhappiness to your stylist. They appreciate your honesty because it allows them to make corrections and ensure your satisfaction as a loyal client. So, speak up and let your stylist know how you feel.
Do this instead: Don’t stay quiet if you’re unhappy with your haircut. Your stylist values your honesty to make corrections and keep you satisfied. Share specific changes you’d like, such as adding face-framing layers or adjusting the length, to achieve a look you’ll love.
Making a big show out of tipping
If your stylist has done a great job, tipping is a thoughtful way to show your appreciation. However, it’s important to do so discreetly. Don’t come back into the salon waving money around, as this could make your stylist feel cheap. Instead, discreetly slip the tip to your stylist or leave it at the front desk.
Do this instead: After you’ve complimented your stylist on your new haircut, you can discreetly tip them in a few ways. You could leave a tip in an envelope with their name on it at the front desk, or you could hand them the tip directly and say thank you.
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