One of men’s love languages is love. “If she doesn’t respect who I am at my core, then how can she really want what is best for me?” Do you respect his mission and his ambition in life?

A man needs someone who respects him and doesn’t simply tolerate his wants and needs. If you’re “helping me” but constantly roll your eyes or contradict what he said, then he will want to distance himself from you. Know who he is and respect the person he is and the person he wants to become.

Women communicate with words. Men communicate with sex. Sometimes it’s hard to establish that connection when a woman needs to connect verbally but it’s hard for men to be in the right connection when he needs intimacy.

Learn from each other what makes the other person feel loved physically.

For as long as they could remember, men had been taught to always be strong and never weak. But that’s not true, isn’t it? Everyone needs to be vulnerable and have the right to experience their emotions. They need a person they could trust to show their vulnerable side.

Before that can happen with you, they need to know that you won’t treat them poorly because of this vulnerability. And if you can’t be that person for him, then forget about your man ever sharing his emotions with you. Listen to him and empathize with him if you want your relationship to last forever.

Men need to breathe and they need to have things outside of their relationship and marriage. Let him spend time on his hobbies, his projects, and his friends. He needs to have something that’s his own.

And while he’s doing that, do your own thing as well.

Men love it when you touch him. A hug or holding his hand or caressing his arm is a sign of love that man recognizes. When he’s working on a project that’s troubling him, come from behind him and give him a hug.

Or surprise him with a kiss. He will love this physical sign of love.

Women love it when a man makes them feel safe and secure. Men love this as well but it’s a different kind of security. He feels secure when you respect who he is, and when you connect with him sexually and physically, and when you give him the space he needs.

Man feels secure when you give him the chance to be vulnerable and embrace it.

Men need to know they can trust their partner completely. Even if it’s unpleasant, he needs to know. Women communicate with words so use them to share your thoughts and feelings with him. Better to be straightforward than to go around the issue.

It’s going to hurt but he will take it.

If there’s only one thing women need to remember, it’s that man does not like to be controlled or manipulated. They don’t want to be dictated and they definitely don’t want to be told that they need to change. Respect, remember?

But if there are things you want in a relationship, tell him so that he can figure out how to best provide them for you.

Men want women who are sure of themselves and who they are. They don’t want women who get the slightest bit jealous of the other women in his life. If you have these insecurities, it’s best to check where it’s coming from and what influenced them.

Tell your partner so he can help you work on your issues.

When a man is committed, he is committed. And he wants his partner to be the same. Are you ready for the commitment? Then tell him you are through your words and actions.

Make the two of you accountable to each other.

A man who is committed to his partner wants stability. They want their relationship and each other to grow. Learn how you can motivate each other to grow.

Just remember, motivate each other but never control or manipulate your partner.

Men are still humans who make mistakes. Every human makes mistakes. When men make mistakes, they’d appreciate it if their partner can be more considerate and understanding. There’s no need to make the mistake bigger than it should be. It’s okay to mess up because even women mess up.

Support each other and learn from each other’s mistakes.

A relationship shouldn’t all be serious. Both of you need to have fun, too. There should always be a balance when it comes to relationships.

Make sure to make time for fun in your relationship, too.

Do you have something in common, maybe a common interest? Take the time to enjoy it together every now and then. You can also expand and grow and consider learning his favorite hobby and encourage him to do the same with yours.

Even if you don’t end up liking what he likes, be interested anyway. Ask questions about it and listen to his stories about his interests.

When you’re both adults, men expect maturity in their partner. This is especially true when you have fights. How do you handle your fights, like a child or a mature woman?

Try to find solutions instead of finding something to blame on him.

Did you know that men love to be pampered as well? We’re not talking about flowers or chocolates but simple gestures that you want to take care of them.

You could cook their favorite meal, massage their back or legs, or make sure their favorite beer is always stocked in the fridge.

During the course of your relationship, both of you will experience a lot of struggles and trials. You expect him to support you and listen to you. Well, he expects the same from you, too.

Even if they’re in the wrong or they’re not completely right, they still need to know that you’ve got their back and you’ll be there for them, no matter what.

Besides being pampered, men love it when their partner takes care of them. At the end of the day, after a long day at work, be sure to greet him with a kiss and a hug. Ask him what he needs, especially after a grueling day, and give it to him without complaints.

You’d want him to do the same for you, too, right?

Men want to feel valued and appreciated. Most importantly, they want to be prioritized. Do you place him very high on your priority list? And if you can’t at the moment because of work or a family emergency, let him know.

And let him know that once your issues are done, you’ll be back to take care of him again.

When a man wants to commit to you, he will go all out and he wants you to go all out with him, too. He doesn’t just want a girlfriend or a wife.

He wants a partner, a best friend, a confidante, an ally, and someone they can 100% trust.

Effective and open communication is the cornerstone of any strong relationship, allowing both partners to express their feelings, desires, and concerns freely.

Trust acts as the foundation of a relationship, providing reassurance that both partners can rely on one another during challenging times.

By establishing shared goals, couples can work together towards common aspirations, creating a united front in their journey forward.

While closeness is vital, maintaining personal independence ensures that each individual can pursue their passions and maintain their sense of self within the relationship.

Stimulating conversations keep the relationship vibrant, allowing couples to constantly learn from and challenge each other.

Recognizing and valuing a partner’s efforts in a relationship fosters feelings of importance and self-worth.

Feeling like a fundamental part of a family or unit gives individuals security and a deeper connection to their partner.

A relationship where both individuals grow, not just as a couple but also personally, remains dynamic and evolving.

Sharing duties and responsibilities in a relationship ensures that the burden isn’t on one person, promoting a sense of partnership.

A safe space where one can express vulnerability strengthens emotional bonds and understanding.

Ensuring that both partners have an equal say in decisions promotes respect and reduces potential conflicts.

Affirming love and commitment regularly keeps the emotional bond strong and provides consistent reassurance.

Experiencing life’s ups and downs together strengthens the bond between partners and creates lasting memories.

Spending meaningful time together, away from distractions, allows couples to reconnect and deepen their bond.

Holding common values ensures that partners are on the same page, guiding their decisions and actions harmoniously.

Every relationship has its challenges; having the patience to work through issues and the grace to forgive strengthens the bond.

Infusing the relationship with spontaneous adventures keeps the excitement alive and helps break the monotony.

Laughter and humor can ease tension, making challenges more manageable and amplifying joyous moments.

Valuing and celebrating a partner’s unique qualities promotes a deep sense of respect and admiration.

Taking an interest in what excites your partner fosters a deeper connection and shows you truly care about their happiness.