When couples are still in the getting-to-know you stage, the men will always do their best to put their best foot forward. They will do what they can to impress the woman in the couple. And once they’ve done enough, that’s when they’ve become an official couple.

And once that happens, sometimes it can go the other way and the gloves fly off and the true colors come out. And then suddenly, the men are putting their best foot forward again. But his time, it’s not to impress the woman, but to win the jerk-of-the-year award.

Don’t believe that?

Here are 50 examples.