Itโs hard to truly put into words the love siblings have for one another.
But Erik Sydow did and, at the same time, helped the entire world to feel that love.
The effect of his words was so palpable because of the raw emotion behind it. He poured every bit of love he had for his sister into her obituary.
Thatโs probably why the obituary titled โA Special Sisterโ ended up going viral. Karen Ann Sydow passed away on Sept. 2021 at the age of 61.
She was born with cerebral palsy and could only regularly speak three words: Mom, Donalds (for McDonaldโs which she loved), and piano (since she loved music).
The obituary outlined Erikโs love for his sisters โwho never had wants or misgivings.โ
It detailed the difficulty COVID caused for the siblings trying to spend time together over the last two years.
โโฆ only recently were we getting back to normal,โ Erik wrote.
While Karen could only speak three words, Erik knew she had an understanding of the important things and could feel emotion.
Their father passed away in 2007 and their mother in May 2021, which left Karen saddened.
The last time the siblings saw each other they went on a sunny bike ride, and thatโs when Erik learned how much Karen was missing mom.
โShe laughed and clapped her hands. When we stopped by the lake for picnic lunch, Karen said โMom, mom.โ I held her and told her โmom is not here anymore.โ Karen totally out of the norm put her head on my shoulder and tears ran down her cheek,โ Erik recalled in his writing.
Karen passed away two weeks after that.
โI think she really wanted to be with mom. Karen, I wish I could have made you laugh one more time. I needed you too. Love your brother Erik,โ the obituary concluded.
Erik also thanked those who helped to care for Karen at Valley Village and Tierra del Sol.
The obituary was so moving that it was tweeted by an LA Times reporter which ended up going viral.
That reporter, Daniel Miller, ended up reaching out to Erik to interview him for a story and let him know about the viral tweet.
โHe had no idea that his tribute had been widely shared, and he was touched by the outpouring of support. But he was more interested in talking about his little sister,โ Miller said in a follow-up piece.
Erik told Miller that his sister was his fatherโs top priority and when he passed he had just one request for Erik: to make sure that Karen stayed happy.
โIโd do anything I could to make her laugh,โ he said.
Karen knew how much Erik cared for her. Whenever they would part he would always tell her โI love you.โ One day, 10 years ago, he learned that she truly understood this.
โShe said it two times, clear as a bell: โI love. I love,โโ Erik said. โIt only happened that one day. I donโt know what brought it out of her.โ
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