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After 24 years of marriage, James Brolin recalls the exact moment he fell for Barbra Streisand
When asked about the secret to their lasting marriage, they had some unique insights.
Jenny Brown
08.30.23

A Love That Stands the Test of Time

Marriage isn’t just about saying “I do.”

It’s a journey, filled with ups and downs, and requires a lot of hard work.

Whether you’re a regular person or a Hollywood star, the effort is the same.

And for Barbra Streisand and James Brolin, their 24-year journey is a testament to that.

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A Match Made in Hollywood

It all started on July 1, 1996. The two were introduced at a party by mutual friends.

Barbra, feeling a bit nervous, spent most of her time with the kids, only joining the main gathering when necessary.

She had expected James, known for his bearded look, to show up in his usual style.

But to her surprise, he arrived clean-shaven with a neat haircut.

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First Impressions and Spicy Remarks

Unable to resist, Barbra teased him, asking, “Who messed up your hair?”

While this might have been awkward for some, James confessed that this playful jab was the moment he fell for her.

Their connection was undeniable.

Barbra even reminisced about a time she fell asleep on her bathroom floor, phone pressed to her ear, while James was away in Ireland filming.

From Red Carpets to Wedding Bells

The world got a glimpse of their budding romance when they graced the red carpet for the premiere of “The Mirror Has Two Faces.”

And as fate would have it, they exchanged vows on the second anniversary of their first meeting.

Through thick and thin, they’ve celebrated numerous milestones together.

Barbra was right beside James during his Hollywood Walk of Fame induction, and he was there for her when she received the National Medal of Arts Award.

Blending Families and Sharing Secrets

Both had been married before and had their own families.

But together, they created a blended family, even sharing a heartwarming photo during one of Barbra’s tours.

When asked about the secret to their lasting marriage, they had some unique insights.

James mentioned the practicality of having separate bank accounts, drawing from his past experiences.

He emphasized the importance of avoiding past mistakes and being proactive.

The Power of Therapy and Listening

James is a firm believer in couples therapy.

He feels that having a mediator can help navigate the stormy waters of emotions and disagreements.

For Barbra, the key lies in listening.

As she was quoted by PEOPLE:

“The secret is to listen carefully. I think to be a good actor, you have to listen. To be a good person, you have to listen. To be a good marriage partner, you have to listen. Hear the other person. Agree to disagree.”

Family Ties and Pandemic Closeness

Their bond extends to their children.

James’ son, Josh Brolin, known for his role as Thanos in the Marvel franchise, expressed his love for Barbra, especially when she embraced the role of a doting grandmother to his youngest child.

The pandemic, which strained many relationships, only brought James and Barbra closer.

The Art of Negotiation

James believes in the art of negotiation and the importance of patience in a relationship. He advises, “Everybody needs patience and to know when to take a walk.”

To truly understand the depth of their relationship, one must see it in action.

Dive deeper into the love story of these Hollywood A-listers in the video below and be inspired by their enduring bond.

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