Saying goodbye to loved ones is never easy, but funerals provide a formal way to do so, often with music. While traditional hymns and classical pieces are common, popular songs are also used. However, some choices can be surprisingly inappropriate. Here are some of the worst examples.
Staying Alive – The Bee-Gees
This choice might be a bit on the nose, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. From the very first note, it’s bound to put everyone in the mood to dance. It’s hard to feel sad with one of disco’s most iconic riffs playing—especially if you encourage everyone to wear white silk flares and platform shoes to the wake.
Another One Bites the Dust – Queen
Another One Bites the Dust is a rock classic with an irresistible hook that gets everyone stomping and nodding along. If you’d rather have people dancing and laughing than sitting somberly at your funeral, it’s an obvious yet brilliant choice.
I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor
Bodies – Drowning Pool
Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go – Wham!
Highway to Hell – AC/DC
The Final Countdown – Europe
I’m Still Standing – Elton John
(I Just) Died In Your Arms – Cutting Crew
The Kill (Bury Me) – 30 Seconds to Mars
Bring Me To Life – Evanescence
I Am The Resurrection – The Stone Roses
Hot In Herre – Nelly
Going Underground – The Jam
Everything is Awesome – Tegan and Sara
Live Forever – Oasis
Live Forever is sonically a great funeral choice—contemplative, hopeful, and anthemic without being overpowering. The only issue is the title and the song’s central theme. Depending on the crowd, it could either provoke laughter or trigger intense sobbing.
Bye Bye Bye – NSYNC
Not all funny funeral songs are rock tracks—pop music fans have their darkly humorous choices too! Bye Bye Bye delivers a very concise final message to your loved ones, and at least everyone might end up doing the choreography!
Tubthumping – Chumbawamba
While you might have been knocked down, it’s safe to say you’re not getting back up again in a coffin. That said, Tubthumping by Chumbawumba is an upbeat, hilariously inappropriate choice—and it even throws a nod to the power of unions in the workplace.
Should I Stay or Should I Go – The Clash
You’ve probably heard the phrase “one foot in the grave,” and playing Should I Stay or Should I Go at your funeral would make it feel all too fitting. While it’s an early punk classic that no one would object to, it might give the impression that you’re too indecisive to even face mortality.
Disco Inferno – The Trammps
There’s something about disco that makes it the perfect choice for a funeral if you’re aiming for a legendary social faux pas. Disco Inferno is the kind of choice that will make everyone nervously shift in their seats, half wondering if they should be looking for fire exits, thanks to its audacity.
I’m Not Okay (I Promise) – My Chemical Romance
If you’re looking for emo flair as you head to your grave, I’m Not Okay by My Chemical Romance is hard to beat—though whether that’s a good or bad thing depends on your take on social conventions. While the band has songs more directly about death, only I’m Not Okay offers a deeply inappropriate yet soaring, almost defiant chorus.
Cotton Eye Joe – Rednex
There are many seemingly inappropriate funeral song picks on this list that might make sense depending on the context or circumstances. Cotton Eye Joe by Rednex, however, is not one of them. If you’re considering making your loved ones endure this despised one-hit wonder, at least allow them to do the choreography.
Survivor – Destiny’s Child
On the complete opposite end of the spectrum, if you want a song that brings a rueful smile and a tear through sheer defiance, Destiny’s Child is the way to go. That is, if your guests know you well enough to get the joke. Otherwise, expect a lot of awkward shuffling in the seats.
Down With the Sickness – Disturbed
Depending on the cause of death, Down With the Sickness by Disturbed could range from mildly inappropriate to downright in poor taste. However, if it’s always been your dream to have people headbanging as your coffin is carried away, there are worse song choices you could make.
(Don’t Fear) The Reaper – Blue Öyster Cult
There’s no denying that (Don’t Fear) The Reaper has a certain class, with its intricate guitar work and sweeping, romantic lyrics. However, that won’t protect you from the angry shouts of relatives who may be displeased with your very nihilistic choice—especially if they’re not on board with the vibe.
Titanium – David Guetta & Sia
Technically, Titanium by David Guetta & Sia should be an okay choice—it’s not overly silly or bombastic, just affirming and anthemic. The issue lies with the chorus, which insists that whoever is knocked down will surely get back up. That sentiment probably doesn’t fit the tone of a funeral.
That’s The Way – KC & The Sunshine Band
(You Gotta) Fight for Your Right (To Party!) – Beastie Boys
Crazy Frog – Axel F
To be completely honest, Crazy Frog by Axel F should probably never be played anywhere—definitely not at a nightclub, rave, or funeral. In any context, this inexplicable one-hit wonder is grating and intolerable. At a funeral, it borders on blasphemous. If you still want to choose it, proceed with caution.
House Of Fun – Madness
There are few occasions where ska isn’t welcome—it’s alternative without being inaccessible and groovy without being overbearing, especially when it comes to Madness. However, even though House of Fun is a classic, there are some situations where it just doesn’t fit. Unfortunately, a funeral is one of them.
I Don’t Feel Like Dancin’ – Scissor Sisters
If you think about it, I Don’t Feel Like Dancin’ might seem like a fitting sentiment for most funerals. However, its cheerful delivery and screeching falsetto by the Scissor Sisters make it more suited to a lively wedding reception or karaoke night—not someone’s final farewell.
Hit Me Baby (One More Time) – Britney Spears
Hit Me Baby (One More Time) is already an odd pop hit, thanks to a misunderstanding by its European lyricist, who thought “hit me” meant “call me.” At a funeral, it becomes even stranger—unless you’re fully committing and requiring everyone to show up in schoolgirl outfits with fluffy hair accessories.
Loveshack – B52’s
Choosing Loveshack by the B-52’s for a funeral comes with two major issues. The first is its overly joyful tone, which feels completely out of place. The second, more practical issue, is its length—it’s just too long for the humor to remain funny from start to finish.
Baby Got Back – Sir Mix-A-Lot
Baby Got Back by Sir Mix-A-Lot is arguably inappropriate for any serious occasion—weddings, baptisms, graduations—you name it. However, playing this ode to derrières at a funeral takes things to a whole new level of unsuitable, unless you’re planning to be buried face down.
Mad World – Tears for Fears
At first glance, Mad World might seem fitting for a funeral—its solemn tone and themes of existentialism align with the occasion. However, it’s almost too perfect, making it feel like a parody in such a serious context. The song has become a meme in its own right, so playing it risks unintended laughter rather than reflection. Best to steer clear.
Ashes to Ashes – David Bowie
Many people have chosen David Bowie to accompany their final journey, and why not? His music is transcendent. However, Ashes to Ashes might not be the ideal pick. Beyond the title’s awkward fit for cremation, the song delves into themes of substance abuse and inner turmoil. While musically stunning, it doesn’t quite match the reflective or celebratory tone most aim for at a funeral.
Heaven is a Place on Earth – Belinda Carlisle
Belinda Carlisle’s Heaven is a Place on Earth is a heartfelt love song and a favorite for many, making it a touching tribute to a surviving partner. But playing it at a funeral could unintentionally raise some awkward theological questions. If heaven is here on Earth, where exactly does that leave the person being honored? It’s a beautiful choice, but maybe not without its hiccups!
Ding-Dong! The Witch is Dead
Ding-Dong! The Witch is Dead might be the ultimate funeral song for making a statement, but it’s certainly not one that exudes warmth. Famously used to mark polarizing moments, its playful, satirical tone ensures no dry eyes—though whether those tears are from laughter or disbelief is another matter. If you pick this for your own service, you’re leaning into some bold, Wizard of Oz level irony.
Friday – Rebecca Black
Playing Friday by Rebecca Black at your funeral is peak chaotic energy. It’s a reminder that sometimes, the ultimate way to leave your mark is to troll everyone in attendance. Sure, it’s inappropriate, cringe-worthy, and completely off-tone—but isn’t that part of its charm? If you’re aiming for an unforgettable exit, this meme-worthy bop might just do the trick… whether they like it or not.
Dear God – XTC
Dear God by XTC is an undeniably beautiful track with its haunting melody and introspective lyrics, but it’s a risky choice for a funeral. While its philosophical musings on faith and suffering might resonate deeply with some, it could also leave attendees shifting uncomfortably in their seats. If you’re okay with stirring up some existential debates instead of tears, this New Wave classic might be the way to go—just be ready for the mixed reactions!
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