What’s the most wholesome experience you’ve had with a stranger?
We are always taught differently when it comes to strangers. ‘Don’t talk to strangers,’ that’s what our parents always say. Sometimes, though, we can have interesting and thoughtful experiences with strangers.
“As a wheelchair user at a baseball game, a little girl approached and climbed onto my lap. Despite her mom’s apologies, I reassured her it was fine. Observing the joy on the girl’s face, I sensed she had a developmental disability. Her mom explained that she missed her wheelchair-using grandfather. I rolled around, giving her a playful ride, eliciting giggles. Afterward, she climbed off, returning to her mom, leaving behind a heartwarming moment at the ballgame.”
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It’s gonna be okay
“In the aftermath of a physically abusive relationship that left me with broken ribs and visible injuries, I spent weeks concealing the marks with long sleeves and high collars. Eventually, as everything healed, I mustered the courage to wear short sleeves in defiance of shame. While standing in a Walmart line, a rugged-looking biker noticed a lingering bruise on my upper arm and asked about it. Rather than hiding the truth, I admitted that someone had hurt me. Surprisingly, he responded with unwavering kindness, assuring me that I didn’t deserve such treatment and that justice would prevail. His words became a pivotal moment, instilling in me a newfound confidence that, no matter the legal outcome, I would be okay.”
He was annoyed at first
“During our Greek honeymoon, we almost faced a predicament while driving our scooter back from a day excursion, desperately seeking a petrol station during the village’s afternoon nap/siesta time. After apologizing in our limited Greek, the attendant reluctantly assisted us, showing a hint of annoyance. However, upon learning we were from New Zealand and celebrating our honeymoon, his demeanor changed drastically; he surprised us with a generous gift of wine, insisting we enjoy the honeymoon and refusing any payment beyond the €6 for petrol, creating an unforgettable highlight of our trip.”
Three yellow dandelions
“During a period of profound depression a few years ago, surrounded by life’s chaos and feeling utterly lost, I found myself sitting in a park, unsure of what steps to take. Unexpectedly, a small child, around three or four years old, approached me and handed over three yellow dandelions before darting back to her mother. This seemingly insignificant act stayed with me. That day, inspired by the simple gesture, I returned home and began the process of tidying up my apartment. While my life didn’t undergo an immediate transformation, that fleeting moment of kindness, likely forgotten by the child and her mother, became one of the most poignant memories in my life.”
‘You, too, huh?’
“During a visit to a local science center with my son, who was enjoying a day of fun, I, too, navigated the exhibits with cerebral palsy. While observing our children interact with the same exhibit, a woman with a young daughter using a walker and leg braces locked eyes with me. Without a word, she preemptively acknowledged our shared experience, saying, “Cerebral palsy. You too, huh?”
The rest of our day unfolded in shared conversations about our lives, experiences, and the advancements in therapies since my childhood. As our kids played, she expressed gratitude, mentioning that witnessing my independence as a single dad with cerebral palsy gave her reassurance about her daughter’s future independence.”
Guiding him became a blessing
“While at Walmart, frustrated by a man blocking the aisle I needed, I overheard him asking a clueless employee about cabinet liners. Offering my help, I guided him to the correct location, sharing my recent purchase. Grateful, he later surprised me at the self-checkouts, insisting on paying for my items. At the time, struggling financially as a single mother with only $35 in my bank account, his unexpected kindness became a profound and tear-inducing miracle, providing much-needed support for my family’s weekly groceries.”
A movie “date”
“Unable to catch the bus due to a snowstorm on the day I planned to see “Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon,” I shared my disappointment with the coffee shop owner. A kind stranger overheard our conversation and offered to drive me to the movie. That day, a perfect stranger and I went out to lunch and enjoyed the film together. About a year later, while dating someone in town, I discovered that his downstairs neighbor was the woman who had graciously taken me to the movies. She spoke fondly of the experience, highlighting the unexpected connection that had brought us together for that cinematic adventure.”
Perfect timing
“In a challenging time when I had just lost my job and my dad was grappling with a stolen card, we found ourselves in a dire situation, out of food and living in a worn-down RV. As my dad, almost in tears, shared our predicament, a knock on the door brought unexpected relief. A compassionate woman, representing a local helping hands organization, had collected food for someone in an RV, and although the intended recipients had left, she inquired if my dad could use the provisions. With generosity that seemed perfectly timed, she presented us with an assortment of essentials, from canned goods to fresh meat and pasta, all purchased with her own money, offering a lifeline just when we needed it most. The memory of her kindness and the impeccable timing remains etched in my gratitude.”
Keep reading
“While browsing in a bookstore, I overheard a young girl asking her mother for a book, only to be discouraged with the suggestion that it was a story better suited for TV. Knowing the joy of reading and lacking support for my own book addiction, I couldn’t ignore the injustice. I promptly purchased the book, sought out the girl in the stacks, and handed her the copy, whispering, ‘Keep reading.’ Her eyes lit up with delight, and in that moment, I couldn’t tell who enjoyed it more, but it might have been me.”
A dollar to read
“As a child from a modest background, my family often frequented thrift stores for essentials. My favorite part was the book section, where you could get 10 books for a dollar. I’d sit, making piles of potential reads, deciding after going through them all. One day, an older lady noticed my enthusiasm for books and asked if I liked to read. Excitedly, I shared my finds, and she handed me a dollar, saying, “Promise me that you’ll keep reading.” Grateful, I promised, and with that unexpected encouragement, I added extra books to my collection. Though it was a small act for her, that random stranger’s encouragement has stayed with me for 22-23 years, a reminder of the enduring power of kindness in nurturing my love for reading.”
‘That’s so cute!’
“In my move from Orlando to a small southern town with bright teal hair, I often received “the look,” especially from older residents. However, one day in an Ingles parking lot, a spirited older lady, around 70, shouted, “Your hair matches your shorts! THAT’S SO CUTE!!!” Her unexpected enthusiasm brightened my day.
After settling into our new place, a neighbor kid knocked on my door, inquiring if I had any kids. When I replied in the negative, he exclaimed, “AW MAN!! I just need friends!” before dashing off, leaving me with a chuckle at the pure and candid encounter.”
Best red light memory
“Sitting at a red light with my wife and son behind a yellow school bus full of kids, some were playfully making faces at passing cars. A small group near the back caught our attention, and suddenly, one kid started doing the “Gangnam Style” dance moves. Without hesitation, I mirrored the dance with a huge grin on my face, even adding the arm-twirling part. The entire bus erupted in laughter as the light turned green, making it the best red light memory ever.”
A nun and an atheist
“During a flight between Melbourne and Brisbane, I found myself seated next to a nun who was not much older than me. Surprisingly, we engaged in a two-hour conversation about life, death, and infinity, making the journey more pleasant than I anticipated. As we prepared to land, and after exchanging goodbyes, she looked me in the eyes, touched my arm, and said, “God bless you.” Despite being an atheist, I felt strangely uplifted and humbled by the unexpected blessing.”
A source of comfort
“At the age of 15, grappling with the challenges of social anxiety, I found myself crying on a downtown step. A kind-hearted girl, about 20, stopped to inquire about my distress. With great effort, I opened up to her, and she gently held me on her shoulder, wiping away my tears. As we parted ways with a smile, she assured me that things would get better. Initially skeptical, I carried her words with me, and they became a source of comfort during tough times. Looking back, I believe she may have saved me from a darker path. Leah, thank you again; I will truly never forget you!”
‘Dad, look, a girl builder!’
“While working on construction at a local supermarket, a little girl passing by with her dad noticed me and exclaimed, “Dad, look, a girl builder!” We had a brief chat, and she continued into the shops with her dad. On her way out, she ran back to have another conversation with me. Discovering she was only four years old, it warmed my heart how she recognized and appreciated seeing a female in a traditionally male-dominated industry. This encounter was particularly uplifting, especially on a day when I had faced challenges dealing with a bully on the job, upset because I couldn’t be there first thing in the morning due to dropping my kids off at school.”
Hugs are needed
“During a challenging day at my job with the TSA, which was often filled with negativity from others, a kind older lady sensed my struggle and asked if I was okay. Despite my standard response, she went a step further and offered a simple yet profound gesture – a hug. Caught off guard, I stared blankly for a moment, then embraced the unexpected warmth she provided. It turned out to be one of the nicest things anyone ever did for me during my time there. Her genuine kindness served as a reminder of the positive impact small gestures can have, and I couldn’t agree more that the world could use more people like her.”
16. Reconsidering biases
“While traveling to the National Parks in Utah, I encountered a flat tire in the hotel parking lot, adding to my worries about potential costs. As I struggled with the tire, a group of Hispanic men approached and offered assistance. They helped replace the tire and shared a Corona beer, guiding me through the process and letting me take on most of the work as a learning experience. Their generosity extended further as they refused a tip at the end of our interaction.
This experience, beyond its immediate impact, became a formative moment for someone who grew up in the wealthy white South. It prompted a shift in perspective and reconsider the attitudes and biases of my parents and the community I grew up in, transforming my understanding from a simplistic “All races are fine” to a realization that there were significant problems within my upbringing.”
They still won
“During a family holiday in Spain, my sister and I spent time playing on crane machines in the apartment complex, hoping to win soft toys and prizes. Unfortunately, our attempts fell short, and we ran out of money. To our surprise, a man who was sweeping and mopping the floors approached us, unlocked the machine, and handed each of us a Winnie the Pooh toy. This unexpected act of kindness left a lasting impression, and even 20 years later, I vividly remember the warmth of that moment.”
A kind gesture
“On our first anniversary, my husband and I celebrated at a restaurant, sitting at the bar next to a couple marking their 15th anniversary. Striking up a conversation, we ended up chatting for two delightful hours. When the wife excused herself to the bathroom, the waiter discreetly collected our checks, only to return our card, informing us that the couple had generously paid our bill. It turned out the wife hadn’t gone to the bathroom but had settled our tab as a surprise. Along with this heartwarming gesture, she left us a lovely note that we still cherish five years later.”
‘I hope you make it home safely’
“When I was 16, after taking my mom’s old Pontiac Bonneville to the movies, I hurriedly left the lights on, causing the car’s battery to die. To my surprise, when I returned, I found a set of jumper cables on the hood with a note that read, “I hope you make it home safely.” That simple act of kindness has stayed with me, and ever since, I’ve made a conscious effort to pay that goodwill forward whenever possible. The memory serves as a reminder of the impact small gestures can have on someone’s day.”
It wasn’t the squirrels
“One day, there was a knock on my door, and to my surprise, a stranger stood there holding a gift card to a local garden store. It turned out that her child had been pinching tulips from my garden daily to give to his mom. Once they discovered the source, they wanted to compensate for the flowers.
I had initially believed squirrels were responsible and had regretted planting the tulips the year before, unable to enjoy them. The unexpected gift card not only solved the mystery but also allowed me to purchase more bulbs, turning an unexpected situation into a delightful gardening opportunity.”
A warm and fuzzy memory during a storm
“During a Melbourne spring storm, I found myself using crutches after an ankle injury as I got off the tram to go to university. A kind man with limited English walked me from the tram stop to my class, holding an umbrella over me for the entire 10-minute walk. This unexpected gesture created a warm and fuzzy memory, highlighting the beauty of human kindness amid a challenging situation.”
Gained a new friend over coffee
“Heading to Starbucks to meet a friend, a stranger around my age asked for directions to the same place. Realizing we were both heading there, we struck up a conversation on the way. Upon arriving, my friend couldn’t make it due to issues. I asked the stranger if I could join him, and he graciously agreed. Now, what started as a chance encounter has blossomed into a friendship, with occasional conversations through our mobiles. It’s a beautiful reminder of the unexpected connections life can bring.”
Don’t judge a book by its cover
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“Working at a bookstore, I encountered a big, heavyset man in overalls. Assuming he’d head to the gun magazine section, I didn’t pay much attention. However, he patiently waited in line, surprising me when he mentioned picking up the book “A Thousand Splendid Suns” by Khaled Hosseini. As I rang him up, I discovered the book was for him, not his wife. He explained, “I think it’s important to read books like this about other cultures than ours. The news always makes the Afghan people seem so bad, but his first book ‘Kite Runner’ gives a good glimpse of what life was like over there and made me think twice about how I was judging those people.”
His words, challenging my assumptions, led me to purchase and read “Kite Runner.” This brief interaction shifted my perspective on judging others based on appearances and initiated a journey of self-reflection. Though only a 2-minute encounter, it has influenced how I strive to understand people’s positions before unfairly judging them. It serves as a powerful reminder of the impact even fleeting moments can have on shaping our perspectives and fostering empathy.”
Thumbs up!
“While driving on the highway, the car in front of me made an abrupt exit and attempted to re-enter, nearly causing a collision. Swiftly maneuvering to avoid an accident, I found myself passing her a moment later. Expecting anger or frustration, she looked up at me with a sheepish expression. Initially prepared to give her a disapproving thumbs down, I recognized her embarrassment and decided to lighten the mood. Flashing a big smile, theatrically wiping sweat from my brow, I gave her an exaggerated thumbs up. To my delight, she smiled, and laughed, and it became one of my favorite moments—a reminder that choosing kindness over frustration can turn a situation around.”
Plan H-eathrow
“In London, on the day I was supposed to fly home, I was walking with my suitcases toward the tube station, oblivious to the fact that a tube strike meant the entire system was closed. Panicking, I started heading to the bus station a few blocks away, desperately brainstorming a Plan B. A young man approached and offered to help carry my suitcases. Upon learning I needed to get to Heathrow, he advised that buses wouldn’t make it in time due to the strike and called a cab for me. Seeking shelter from the rain, he found a spot, and we sat chatting while waiting for the cab. To my relief, he even let me use his phone to transfer money for the fare. His kindness and reassurance in a moment of panic left a lasting impression, and I’ve never been able to find him again online to express my gratitude.”
Food adventures
“While in the hospital for an extended stay, tired of the food, I ventured downstairs to the hospital Subway across the street. The hospital was vast, and it took almost fifteen minutes to navigate the labyrinth of staircases and hallways. In line at Subway, ready to order, I realized I’d left my wallet in my room. Mentally exhausted, I explained the situation and prepared to trek back. Suddenly, a nurse behind me stepped up and bought my food, saving me the trip and the money. Profusely thanking him, that act of kindness during a challenging time has left an indelible mark in my memory.”
Was it the right move?
“Facing a life-changing decision, you had been struggling in NYC for three years when your dad was diagnosed with Parkinson’s. Opting to move back south for support, leaving behind your dreams in book publishing, the choice felt both huge and scary. On one of your last nights in the city, a cab driver’s eerily prophetic words struck a chord. He looked at you in the mirror and asked if you were leaving the city for good, mentioning meeting “fancy animals with human faces.” As he bid you farewell, he claimed you had met before a thousand years ago and would again. Reflecting on his words, you’ve found solace in the decision to move, realizing it was the right choice for you.”
Helping someone in need
“Traveling from the South of England to the North of Scotland for a new job, you faced a crisis when the bus to Heathrow was canceled, and you had to navigate London’s night buses with a dead phone. Feeling scared and lost in Victoria around 2:30 a.m., a kind woman approached, asking if you were alright. Tearfully explaining your situation, she used her phone to look up your route, noting down various buses and train options with timings. Remarkably, she waited with you for about twenty minutes, and when the bus arrived, she paid your fare despite having no cash on London buses. As you got on, she shrugged and mentioned she wasn’t taking the bus, just wanting to help someone in need. This compassionate stranger’s gesture remains a grateful memory in your heart.”
Without a word
“At the age of 18, you had a friend battling brain cancer, and you visited him in the hospital whenever possible. He had a punk and alternative style, while you sported a leather jacket and long hair. On a fateful day, as you walked to his room, a nurse noticed you. Without uttering a word, she approached and gave you a long, comforting hug. In that silent embrace, you sensed the news of your friend’s passing. It was a poignant moment of shared grief, and the nurse’s compassionate gesture spoke volumes in that difficult time.”
A memory-filled bike trip
“In August of last year, you embarked on a remarkable journey, loading camping gear onto your bicycle and covering 5,300 miles around the US over the next seven months. Along the way, you encountered the kindness of strangers as every person you met wanted to contribute positively to your story. Many generous locals opened their homes, offering you a warm bed, a hot shower, and delightful company along with a home-cooked meal. Neighbors in campsites were curious about your travels, and in exchange for your stories, they welcomed you around their fire, sharing food and beer. Your adventure became a tapestry woven with the warmth and hospitality of countless individuals, making each day a testament to the goodness of humanity.”
35 Epic moments total strangers became angels in disguise
Jaclyn Abergas
01.03.24
What’s the most wholesome experience you’ve had with a stranger?
We are always taught differently when it comes to strangers. ‘Don’t talk to strangers,’ that’s what our parents always say. Sometimes, though, we can have interesting and thoughtful experiences with strangers.
“As a wheelchair user at a baseball game, a little girl approached and climbed onto my lap. Despite her mom’s apologies, I reassured her it was fine. Observing the joy on the girl’s face, I sensed she had a developmental disability. Her mom explained that she missed her wheelchair-using grandfather. I rolled around, giving her a playful ride, eliciting giggles. Afterward, she climbed off, returning to her mom, leaving behind a heartwarming moment at the ballgame.”
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