It’s a fact that divorce is a stressful and painful process. People who go through it experience loss of that familiar family life as well as financial loss.

Despite that, most people who get divorced show no regret about it. In fact, a lot of them were able to live a much fulfilling and happier life after.

Those who were lucky enough to experience good divorces get to continue family relationships. They experience less emotional stress and reduced financial losses. Their kids didn’t experience long-term consequences, too.

If you don’t believe in good divorces, here are 30 divorce selfies that will change the way you think about the process.