As a strong, independent woman (yes, I went there), I feel that I must put something to rest, and that is the notion that just because women want to be treated equal doesn’t mean that men shouldn’t still demonstrate some chivalry now and then. Do I want equal pay and the right to vote? Absolutely! Does that mean my husband shouldn’t bring me flowers and rub my feet while I sip on some wine every once and a while? Heck no! While there are those people out there who cannot wrap their heads around the notion that men can treat women without treating them like lesser individuals, there are also a good deal of men who GET IT. And boy, are those men setting the bar high for all others.
These 31 amazing boyfriends and husbands prove that chivalry isn’t dead by going above and beyond with their gestures of love. Check them out, then let us know what you think!
1. This man proves that you don’t have to have money to have love and happiness. He couldn’t afford lilies to buy for his GF as a welcome home gift, so he MADE them.
2. This man’s wife asked him to rake the leaves. He did her one better.
3. See this room? It is covered in 7,000 sticky notes. And each one contains a memory he has with her. Good luck trying to top that one.
4. When this man says he’s going to build something for his wife, he actually does it. Wife went away for 48 hours and came back to this.
5. This man wanted to make sure that his girlfriend had something to smile about for the next 365 days. So what did he do? He wrote 365 notes and put them in a jar for her to select at random.
6. If you’re a Harry Potter fan, be ready to swoon. This guy made custom leather covers for each book in the series for his girlfriend.
7. One year, this couple was too broke to afford Christmas presents let alone a tree. The wife cried. The husband got creative. He borrowed some lights and made this in their apartment. Now, every year, they make this same tree to remind them of where they once were.
8. Take note guys: home renovation projects get us every time. This man built his girlfriend a pantry when she was away on a long weekend. *heart flutter*
9. Don’t own your own home or the tools or skills to pull off a pantry? Make your wife an enchanted rose like this guy did. No biggie.
10. OR, you could make her a nice leather satchel.
11. OR, you could rig her scale with nothing but love.
12. If you’re no McGyver, you can always get her a puppy. Sara spotted a pup at the shelter that she wanted but was told he was already adopted. Little did she know that her husband, Rich, was the person who adopted him.
13. One woman wanted a place to hang her stockings for Christmas, so her boyfriend built her a fireplace.
14. This woman had just turned 21, but she and her boyfriend were broke so she wasn’t expecting any sort of gift. Little did she know that her boyfriend possessed a secret talent…for making all other gifts seem thoughtless and shallow.
15. This guy clearly knows the way to his woman’s heart: via bubble baths, wine and cat videos (duh).
16. This guy–who made this bouquet for his and his wife’s 1st wedding anniversary–says he has no crafting ability. Clearly, he doesn’t know how many times I’ve tried to make a flower bouquet for myself and failed miserably.
17. This guy’s wife had too much to drink, but instead of admonishing her, he made her a cozy place to puke. The setup is complete with a pillow and blankets surrounding the ivory thrown, and off to the side are the necessities: hair tie, water, socks and nose spray. And don’t think he overlooked the candles–they’re battery operated for her safety.
18. Those who game together stay together, as this man so clearly proves. (He designed and made them himself.)
19. One man made his wife a Christmas tree ladder. I am so trying this.
20. One woman is in love with Snoopy, so her boyfriend made her this masterpiece.
21. One woman wanted a cat, so what did her husband do? He got her two! He couldn’t split the pair up but figured his wife wouldn’t mind (I’m sure she didn’t!).
22. This guy made his boyfriend a custom handmade Settlers of Catan set + extension for his 30th birthday. He spent over 2 months making it. Now THAT is dedication!
23. Let’s just say, this guy gets it.
24. And this guy gets that women love bacon, too!
25. This guy made his girlfriend a sloth ice cream cake for her birthday, because she loves ice cream and sloths…obviously.
26. This guy’s girlfriend loves Cinderella, so he took her to the castle at Disney World and presented her with this.
27. This guy just “whipped up” a fancy dinner because he and his wife couldn’t afford to go out for their anniversary.
28. It’s not the size that counts–it’s the thought behind it! This man just made this silver ring for his girlfriend. Out of silver metal clay. NBD.
29. One guy had Salvador Dali Vans made for his girlfriend on Valentine’s day.
30. This guy gets double brownie points, for caring about his girlfriend and his girlfriend’s cat. The cat was having trouble getting over the fence and back, so he made this for her.
31. And then there’s this guy, who made his wife-to-be a stained glass window for her as a wedding gift.
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