The 80’s were a unique era, decades ago, without modern tech like smartphones and fast internet. Christmas celebrations involved real conversations and quality time with others.

Neighbors Came Over To Visit

There weren’t many “things to do” so there were more visits. Young men and women coming home from school around the holidays would find a neighbor or friend sitting at the kitchen table with their hands wrapped around a mug of coffee.

Guests dropped by unannounced to drop off a jar of jam or a coffee cake or a box of nuts and chocolates. Parents returned the favor by sending them home with a Tupperware container full of homemade cookies or a loaf of bread.

Gestures like those were meaningful. People slowed down to enjoy the very thing the holidays are supposed to make us feel — pure joy. Today, everyone is just in a constant rush.