1) “What do you need to remember?”
Encouraging children to think about what we say works best when they are asked a question. When they have to think about it, it often allows them to remember.
2) “You are very helpful.”
A positive phrase such as this, helps kids feel useful. It also encourages them to help more often.
3) “Shall we get up now?”
Using this phrase is a great way to wake a child up. Not only do they understand that it is time to get up, they also know they are not getting up alone.
4) “Please talk softly.”
This is a great way for parents to show children what to do, as opposed to what not to do. Choose a place in the home where they can be loud, then they know they can speak loud in that area.
5) “You are a healthy eater.”
When you want your kids to make healthier food choices, positive phrases like this really help. It really makes them feel like they are doing something good.
6) “Would you like to do it on your own or have me help you?”
Asking a child a double question helps them begin their decision-making process. This is a difficult skill some children have a hard time learning.
7) “Shall we put these away so no one trips over them?”
Encouraging children to help with picking up their toys by using this phrase is a great way for them to know the task at hand. It also tells them why it should be done.
8) “You are a hard worker.”
Positive reinforcement helps build a child’s self-esteem. It also lets the child know that the parents appreciate all their efforts.
9) “What did you learn from this mistake?”
Allowing a child to think for themselves builds their ability to find solutions. It really makes them think about what they would do the next time.
10) “Thank you for listening to me.”
This phrase not only teaches a child proper manners, but it also lets them know that it is important to listen. When a child is taught to listen, it minimizes accidents from happening.
11) “You’re getting good at remembering to wash your hands”
Praising a child for remembering a task, will help them to continue to remember in the future. Personal hygiene is extremely important.
12) “We are on cheetah time today and need to move fast!”
A great way to get your kids moving is to make a game out of it. They may think it’s fun to act like a cheetah.
13) “You are kind and gentle.”
Encouraging children to be kind and gentle will help battle the bullying that takes place today. It is always better to be kind.
They will feel great about themselves when they show acts of kindness.
14) “Your face is covered in smoothie! What shall we do about that?”
Rather than saying something like “go wipe your face”, this is a much gentler approach. Letting your child know you are always there to help adds a great deal of security to them.
15) “Let’s add that toy you want to your birthday list.”
Rather than telling your child you can’t afford to buy them something and putting the financial stress on their shoulders, encourage them to add it to a list for special occasions. This teaches children not to expect things all the time.
16) “You did it all by yourself!”
Encouraging children to become independent allows them to build self-confidence. It teaches them they can perform tasks on their own.
17) “Remember to use your gentle hands.”
Teaching a child to be gentle is important, especially if you have other younger children in the house. It also prepares them for day care and/or school.
18) “Stop, breathe, now ask for what you want.”
To discourage your child from whining or crying, this is a great approach. It provides them with gentle instructions to calm them down.
19) “We always need to look after the baby.”
Some children can be very rough with babies. Making this statement to them, will help them understand they must all protect the baby, not hurt the baby.
20) “Why don’t you ask if you can use it when she is finished.”
Learning to share, this is always a struggle with younger children. Teaching them a positive approach to sharing like this phrase is a great start.
21) “Respect yourself and others.”
Children that are taught to show respect to themselves and others are much happier children. Playtime becomes a fun activity.
22) “Please ______________.”
When parents begin a sentence to their children with please, it encourages the children to nicely complete the request. Saying don’t, or stop, are negative words. Parents should always use positive words.
23) “Do you want to leave now or in ten minutes?”
When you ask a child this, it allows them to be in control of their destiny and to also inform them that soon it will be time to go. Giving them a bit of a heads up, allows them to know what’s coming.
24) “Kind words, please.”
Reminding children to speak nicely, by speaking nicely yourself, will set the example for them. It is a learned behavior.
25) “Look after our walls, please.”
A phrase such as this, will teach your children to respect personal property. When they realize they cannot damage things, they will tend to take care of things.
26) “Let’s try five belly breaths.”
A great way to gently calm your child down. They will tend to stop crying and focus on their bellies.
27) “Cutlery is for your mouth, remember?”
A great reminder that spoons and forks are not toys. This gentle reminder will encourage the child to use their utensils properly.
28) “Use your teamwork skills.”
This positive phrase teaches kids not to be bossy. It also shows them they will have more friends if they all play together.
29) “We’ll all need shoes today because it’s so cold. Where are yours?”
Encouraging a child to help themselves get ready to go out allows them to gain some independence. It also helps speed up the process when you have other children to get ready as well.
30) “It’s okay to cry.”
Giving a child positive permission to cry teaches them about sharing emotions. This life skill will carry on into their adulthood, creating healthy relationships.
31) “I love you no matter what.”
Letting your child know you love them unconditionally regardless of their behavior makes them feel very secure. However, you can also nicely speak about the negative behavior the child experienced.
32) “You care, so I’d love for you to decide.”
A great way to combat the famous “I Don’t Care” that we all get from our kids. This tactic teaches them how to become a leader.
33) “I believe in you and am here to support you.”
Showing your child love and support will set the foundation for them to do the same for others. It also gives them a great sense of self-worth.
34) “How are you feeling?”
When you ask a child how they are feeling, you are showing them you are genuinely concerned about them. It also helps children to learn to identify their emotions.
35) “You are beautiful inside and out.”
Phrases like this really help boost a child’s self-esteem. They learn that they need to love themselves first.
36) “That is really brave!”
This is a great fear reducing statement. Not only will your child feel more secure, but they will also feel very proud.
37) “I’ll stop what I’m doing if you need me.”
Instead of telling kids you are too busy to help them, try saying this. This will make them feel like they are more important to you than anything.
38) “Have fun!”
Telling your child to have fun, is giving them permission and your approval to have a good time. Kids have a far better time if they know their parents are happy that they are going to have fun.
39) “I’m grateful for you.”
Letting your children know you are grateful to have them in your lives makes them feel very loved. When you communicate things like this to your kids they know where they stand in the family and feel very important.
40) “Follow your heart.”
This is a phrase that will teach your kids to always do what feels right. It is an inspirational saying that can help kids set goals.
41) “Always help those who need it.”
Teaching kids to be respectful and helping those in need will make them feel good about themselves. There is always a feeling of warmth when you help someone in need.
42) “You can always try again.”
When kids fail to succeed at something, it is always important to try again. This will give them the incentive to make another effort and perhaps succeed.
43) “You make me so happy.”
When your child knows that they make you very happy, they will do everything in their power to continue to. When they know their parents are happy, they tend to be a lot happier and feel like they are a very important part of your life.
44) “Give me a hug.”
When you and your child hug, it creates a very strong bond. It also releases endorphins, which make people happy.
45) “You look so nice today!”
There is no better way to make a child feel good than telling them they look good. A real self-confidence booster.
46) “Tell me about your day.”
Showing interest in your child’s day lets them know you care about them and what they do. It also opens the line of communication between you and your child.
47) “There’s pride in giving your best shot.”
An inspirational phrase that lets kids know even if they don’t succeed at something when they do their best, they should be proud. It also lets the kids know their parents are proud of their efforts also.
48) “Money is not the most important thing.”
Kids tend to put a lot of value into money. Many kid’s status symbols are wearing name brand clothing. However, not all families can afford this.
So it’s important to teach kids there are many other things in life that are more important than money.
49) “I LOVE YOU!”
These are the most important words you can ever say to your child. Always tell them every day so they always feel loved.
50) “It’s okay to say no.”
This is one of the most important things you can teach your child. If something doesn’t feel right, follow your instincts and say no. It could save a life.
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