If youโre back in the dating game, you probably want to do it all differently this time around.
Chances are, the man, or men, you previously attracted ended up not living up to your expectations.
But the past is in the past, and the last thing you want to do is repeat it โ so itโs important to focus on finding a โtop 10 manโ this time around.
Dating expert James Swanwick teamed up with John Gray, bestselling author of โMen Are from Mars, Women Are from Venusโ, for an interview on the subject that you seriously donโt want to miss.
Jamesโ mission is simple: to show us โthe system to attract a powerful millionaire, CEO, world-changer, celebrity โ that one-in-a-million, needle-in-the-haystack man youโve been dreaming ofโ.
Sounds too good to be true, right?
Itโs not, according to James. We can all attract these sorts of men into our lives if we know what weโre doing.
But even if youโre not interested in dating a celebrity or a millionaire, Jamesโ interview with John Gray will still give you the knowledge you need to attract a man who has his life together, whatever that looks like to you.
Letโs get into some of John Grayโs best tips.
1. Surround yourself with the right people
You wonโt find a top 10 man if youโre not in the right locations. Put yourself in different locations to find men who share the same values as you.
For instance, if you were looking for a wealthy man, donโt assume that heโll be showing off his money (and those who do show off probably arenโt those who you want to be with). Try joining a club in your local area, whether bike riding or sailing, and get out of your comfort zone โ you never know who you might meet in the process.
2. Donโt be easy to get
It can be tempting, when you think youโve found your dream man, to do everything you can to hold onto him. But this is a big turnoff for men. Itโs much better to make him earn it and play by your own rules, whether that means following the 6-date rule or simply listening to your heart.
3. Recognize trade-offs
Every relationship has trade-offs. A relationship should be based on equality, but a man should also pursue and earn your love. By having to work hard at the relationship, a man will bond with you more than if youโre instantly all over him. Make sure youโre clear on what your values are from the very beginning โ but donโt behave like youโre in a job interview.
4. Donโt look for happiness
When a woman is happy, she releases hormones that attract a man. Thatโs why we call it โchemistryโ โ a womanโs happiness makes her radiant, beautiful and attractive. Itโs important that you make it clear that youโre happy with or without a man, however, and that you wonโt need to rely on him for your happiness.
5. Appreciate what he gives to you
โฆ but donโt pursue him. The best way you can bond with a man is to be receptive to what he does or create situations for him to do things for you. When you pursue a man, heโll sit back. Let him pursue you โ itโs in his nature to be the pursuer.
If youโre keen to find a man who has his life together, the tips mentioned in this article should get you off to a good start.
But donโt stop there! Thereโs so much useful guidance in this video interview that itโs well worth watching it in full.
You can check it out just below.
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